How Gratitude Affects Physical and Mental Health

If you decided to keep a gratitude journal once a week for 10 weeks, how do you suppose that might affect your gratitude levels? What about writing a gratitude or thank you letter to someone?

Researchers are finding that gratitude and gratitude activities are having significant effects on physical fitness, self-esteem, heart patients, the chronically ill, depressed and suicidal patients, and with relationships and in the workplace.

 

Gratitude is a prescription for a healthy heart—

A 1995 study found that participating patients that experienced appreciation had improvements in heart rate variability, a function associated with good heart health.

More grateful people also report better physical health. They tend to:

  • engage in healthy activities
  • seek help for their health issues
  • sleep better and longer

 

Heart and heart attack patients who have higher levels of gratitude do better in sleep, have less fatigue, enjoy lower levels of cell inflammation, and greater improvements in emotional well-being.

Higher optimism and gratitude have also been associated with higher adherence to following medical recommendations.

Chronic pain patients and those with chronic illnesses like arthritis or inflammatory bowel syndrome tend to experience less depression and anxiety and enjoy better sleep when they have higher levels of gratitude.

And gratitude may actually prevent chronic illness from occurring.

 

Gratitude interventions—

In 2003, Emmons and McCullough found that the participants they had in the study record 5 things they were grateful for (“counting blessings” or “gratitude journaling”) every week for 10 weeks reported a lot more time exercising ad noted fewer physical complains than the participants assigned to write down 5 hassles or 5 daily events.

 

Gratitude may improve sleep!

Research indicates keeping a gratitude journal improves your sleep.

Maybe doing a gratitude check before bed primes your brain and body chemicals for a peaceful, restful night.

Gratitude journals may also improve cardiac health.

Grateful people tend to enjoy life more and have greater feelings of well-being.

 

Gratitude and materialism—

A few studies suggest that more grateful people are less materialistic, which may be because they’re more satisfied with their lives.

But one study showed that people who were both materialistic and high in gratitude did not have lower life satisfaction. They were just happy, grateful materialists!

 

Gratitude and avoiding burnout—

Studies indicate that gratitude may help employees and athletes avoid burnout; but burnout may dampen feelings of gratitude.

 

More reasons to start counting your blessings—

We need to really take this blessing counting seriously, as more studies have found that being grateful and demonstrating gratitude in some way had the following effects:

  • improved people’s life satisfaction
  • improved
  • alleviated depression symptoms in the severely depressed
  • increased optimism
  • increased happiness
  • decreased body dissatisfaction in women!
  • an increase of trust and positive emotions during a financial transaction

 

Pull out those thank you cards and start writing!

The research showing the multitude of benefits from thank you card writing is impressive. People who do it show higher levels of gratitude. And actually reading the letter to the recipient may really crank up the happiness scoreboard AND decrease depression.

 

In numerous studies, writing thank you notes and letters had a significant effect on the writer’s feelings of gratitude and resulting life satisfaction and happiness.

 

Be grateful to broaden your mind—

It also turns out that gratitude tends to increase your creativity, especially when thinking about an activity that will benefit others.

And gratitude can enhance social bonds and friendships.

And the list goes on and on!

Gratefulness can cause people to:

  • play more
  • be creative
  • push their limits
  • increase their psychological and social resources
  • cancel out negative thoughts
  • increase and improve coping mechanisms
  • re-cast negative events in a positive light
  • put effort into positive behaviors, which in turn leads to self-improvement behavior
  • improve their relatedness (being and feeling connected)
  • improve their feelings of autonomy (and being empowered and in control)
  • improve their feelings of competence
  • decrease their stress levels or perception of stress
  • decrease their depression
  • decrease their anxiety
  • experience fewer suicidal thoughts and attempts at suicide
  • have a decreased fear of death
  • be able to respond better to traumatic life events
  • show more humility
  • have more wisdom
  • enjoy pro-social behavior
  • increase their sense of purpose in life
  • increase their sense of satisfaction in school
  • improve their relationships
  • foster more and better relationships
  • improve workplace atmosphere and relationships

 

With all of these amazing benefits associated with attitudes of gratitude and gratefulness, and demonstrating gratitude through behavior and thank you card writing, why would you put off putting them into practice? Of try to make it a habit, or a fundamental, frequent practice in your life?

It just appears that gratitude makes you an all-around better, happier and probably more productive and engaging person. Someone other people gravitate toward and want to be with and like.

 

So as we say goodbye to the official gratitude month of November, and look forward to one of the days on the calendar we should be most grateful for, let’s try to put some of these gratitude-building activities into practice.

Preparing our grateful hearts for the One who loves us most!

 

Until next week, when we’ll start looking at just how much He does love us and the power of love,

Keep making entries into that gratitude journal, or maybe ask for a special one for Christmas!

For more in-depth study on gratitude research, see Greater Good Science Center’s gratitude white paper.

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

Thank You Light by Morvanic Lee on unsplash

Black Friday OptOut(side)

It’s Black Friday.

‘Tis the season to stand in line for hours and go nuts at the malls.

Did I need to tell you that?

What do you plan to spend the day doing?

Shopping? Eating leftover turkey, stuffing, potatoes and pie?

 

How about an alternative option. One that has health and wellness and saving money written all over it?

 

Skip Black Friday shopping and do some playing outside!

 

Yup. Get out in the great outdoors for some creation viewing and inhaling!

Breathe fresh air.

Break a sweat.

Sunbathe.

Go canoeing or kayaking. Hike. Run. Grab a bunch of friends and play soccer in the park. How about Frisbee with your dog? Riding a bike along a bike path. Going to the dog park. Enjoying a café con Leche al fresco with a friend.

Take a stand and rebel against the same old, against the world’s marketing giants.

Source of my rebellion—

The Camino. That’s what did it. And this is yet another example of how that journey changed me.

I haven’t done the Black Friday shopping bit for years, but I have perused the websites online, the ones that tease me to get in on the cyber action three days early, so I can be a savvy shopper. So I can feel good about the bargain I scored.

On The Camino I rejected news, marketing and teasers. I focused on my purpose and spiritual journey.

I spent most of my day outside in the caressing sunshine and sweet smelling (or sometimes dust-cloaked) air and realized how much I missed being outside. How good it made me feel physically, (there are extreme health benefits that come from being outside), emotionally and spiritually, untethered from my computer and household work.

 

Let’s go back to the spiritual benefits—

Isn’t that what we kicked off yesterday? Christmas? The most celebrated spiritual season of the year?

So why not focus on it? Why lose yourself in the shopping hype and drain your bank account? Why drive around endlessly looking for a parking spot at the mall?

Be a trendsetter. A rebel.

 

Choose to OptOutside!

Join REI as they celebrate their Day in. Day out. Celebrated on Black Friday when they’re closed for business, to encourage outdoor recreation.

Four years ago they had the gumption to change their status quo business model and decided to close their doors, and still pay their employees! On Black Friday.

Imagine. Some conscientious capitalism.

As they say on their dedicated website:

 

“It’s about the routines—the ones we need and the ones we need to rethink.”

 

So how about joining them in the rethinking.

For more on the benefits of going outside, head to their special website.

And spread the word!

#optoutside

 

 

NEXT WEEK:

What does depression look like? Could you recognize it in a co-worker or loved one?

In this season of making merry, we need to remember that for some it is the most profoundly depressing time of year. We can’t assume that our friends, fellow churchgoers, and co-workers are doing okay in this area just because they’re showing up and participating and getting the job done.

Next week I’m going to give you a great info graphic, courtesy of my friends and professional psychologists at BetterHelp.

It will give some great information on identifying functional depression and tips on the getting the help functional depressants need.

 

Until then,

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

First photo by Dieter de Vroomen on unsplash

Second photo by Sabina Ciesielska on unsplash

13 Tips for a Healthy, Happy (Regret-free) Thanksgiving

Have you ever gotten to the end of Thanksgiving Day or awakened the following day regretting the amount of food you ate, the desserts consumed, and the way you feel post-feast?

Why not turn over a new leaf by deciding now that things will be different this year—that you’ll make better, healthier choices, and be happier and proud of your new lifestyle choices.

That you’ll enjoy conscientious eating!

 

How to do it—

If you’re ready and excited to give it a try, use some or all of these tips to maximize your success by having a game plan. No game plan usually means failure!

FIRST and FOREMOST, be prayed up before you hit the table! That your eyeballs and tastebuds are not led into temptation!

  1. After you’ve gotten the turkey all dressed and prepped and popped in the oven, grab your sweetie and four-legged family members and go for a walk. Getting outside in the fresh air can help you work up an appetite. It’ll also get the digestive tract going so it’s primed to digest the food better when you do sit down to eat.
  2. If you’re using paper plates, buy smaller ones, rather than the big, oval smorgasbord-type models.
  3. Don’t showcase all of the food on the dining room table so you only have to grab, spoon and plop the food on your plate. Having the food in front of you makes it too easy to mindlessly overeat. Place the food on a table in another room besides the dining room, so you have to get up to serve yourself.
  4. On your first round at plating your food, select salads, veggies and fruit and sit down and eat those. Then return for the meat and potatoes. Or fill up most of your plate with the salads, veggies and fruit and save a tiny space for the meat, potatoes and gravy.
  5. For the dessert, make a decision ahead of time to take small servings for the desserts, or take four to five bites (don’t overload your fork!) and then put your fork down and immediately toss the rest of the dessert so you’re not tempted.
  6. Reduce the number of sweetened drink selections (like sodas, lemonades, etc.) and replace them with homemade, unsweetened lemon, lime, orange or cucumber water. Have orange slices for the kids (or the adults) who like a spurt of sweetness.
  7. Have a spread of nuts, fruits and cheeses out for guests to nibble on before sitting down to the regular meal. A bowl of grapes is always a big hit in our house.
  8. When eating, put your fork down between bites so you maximize your chewing and improve digestion.
  9. Try to spend more time chatting, listening and socializing than eating. Don’t eat and chew simultaneously!
  10. Immediately following the meal, refrigerate the uneaten food that might quickly spoil (to avoid reflexive nibbling), wrap up the other items to keep them fresh, and then go for another post-meal, digestive-enhancing stroll.
  11. For you football or sports fans, avoid over-saturation and too much sitting by deciding you’ll only flop on the couch to watch two games, or five hours maximum during the day. If you’re busy cooking and watching, you might be able to squeeze in more, but don’t park yourself on the couch all day. It’s dangerous for your health!
  12. If you want to try something really off-the-wall, dig out the chopsticks and try eating your meal with them! That’s a recommendation I received from a professional in healthful eating that I interviewed for an article a couple of years ago. Fun, and funny! (You will eat less while stimulating your brain and coordination.)
  13. Instead of watching sports, dig out the board games and stimulate your brain and conversation.

You don’t need to brag about being a glutton to enjoy the day. Think of all of the components that go into it and see how you can apply even small tweaks to leave you feeling healthy and happy, and proud of your self-care!

 

Let’s hear it for no more guilt!

 

Time to share—

What does your family do to keep the healthy lifestyle going on the biggest meal ingestion day of the year?

 

Until next week,

A very blessed and Happy Thanksgiving to you!

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

 Photo by Libby Penner on unsplash

How to Prepare Your Heart to Give Thanks

They came to me through the mail. A surprise present from a precious friend for my BIG birthday this year. I hadn’t put in a request for them. They hadn’t even been on my radar as a possible present.

But they were perfect! And I cried when I opened the box and saw them.

Beads. Beautiful beads handmade into a special loop.

 

Prayer beads.

 

I do admit to an initial concern, since I try to avoid anything that resembles rote, repetitive prayer. Unless it’s the “Lord’s prayer” Jesus taught the disciples in the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 6, verses 9-13.

But then I read through the accompanying explanation pamphlet, which offered suggestions on how to use the beads to pray.

 

The beads actually start with the Cross, which reminds us of Christ’s act of salvation for us.

The next bead up from the cross has been called the Invitatory Bead, which can be used as a call to worship. Reciting the Lord’s Prayer is a suggested prayer to call you to worship God.

Then comes the Resurrection Bead that reminds us that Christ has conquered death. For believers, we rejoice in the Resurrection that gives us eternal life.

Then the 4 Cruciform Beads that form the shape of the cross. The number 4 is a reminder of the four Gospels.

The seven little beads between each cruciform beads are called “Week Beads” (the number 7 representing spiritual perfection) that can also remind us of the 7 days of Creation.

The total number of beads, 33, reminds us of the years Christ lived on earth.

 

Now back to the cruciform beads—

The first thing that struck me in the instructions was the order the cruciform beads take you through when praying.

 

And praying that way has had a profound effect on my prayer life.

 

It’s suggested that the first cruciform bead above the Resurrection Bead be used to acknowledge God. Who He is, how He loves, what He’s done for us.

The next cruciform bead, as you move counter-clockwise around the beads, is where you Confess your sins and ask for forgiveness.

The third cruciform bead is the bead of Thanksgiving.

The final cruciform bead is the Intercessory Bead or where you offer up your prayer requests.

If you want to return to the first cruciform bead, you can once again thank God for Who He is.

 

 

Did you notice the order?

I found it a bit unsettling to my heart and brain the first time I stumbled through praying with the beads.

But then the light bulb in my head went on: how focused and right it seemed to pray that way!

To spend the initial time identifying with the cross of my Savior—the beautiful and somber identity marker of love, forgiveness, sacrifice and hope. What started out as unnatural quickly became comfortable.

Then I moved to praying the Lord’s Prayer at the Invitation Bead.

And then on to the Resurrection Bead. And as I prayed this way, something rather miraculous happened.

 

I slowed down and focused on the Lord—who He is, what He means to me, and what He means to the body of Christ—the “our” and “us” so often repeated in the Lord’s Prayer. A reminder that although this praying is personal it’s also corporate. I am part of a great body of believers stretching back a couple of thousand years. I am not alone in my faith, or in my relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

And then, instead of rushing on to my prayer requests and thank you’s, I had to focus on my faults. Those nasty transgressions that put a rift in my relationship with God, that stifle my spiritual health.

It struck me how those confessions came before the thank you and prayer request beads. And how important it is that I don’t skip this “step” before moving on.

It’s humbling. And freeing. To get it all out in the open, laid out and taken care of. So I can move forward.

 

 Forgiven.

 

When I did move forward, I felt free and unencumbered to really thank God for all of His marvelous blessings, big and small! After the somber aura surrounding my heart and soul during the confession stage, the aura disappeared to be replaced by unearthly, saturating joy at the thanksgiving bead!

And then my heart was truly ready to put in my requests. After the preceding prayers, the conduit between the Lord and me seemed to be open and flowing. Joyful. Rejoicing.

Supremely blessed and fulfilled.

 

Residual blessings—

When the praying is over, I’ve found I’m more in tune to the Spirit and His leading throughout the day.

 

Those beads came with me on the Camino, carried in my backpack’s hip pocket and into every church we visited. They helped keep me centered and focused, grateful and awed as we traversed country boasting centuries of Christian faithfulness.

 

Required form?

Do you have to pray this way?

No.

The only “set” way Jesus gave as an example for prayer is in the prayer He taught the disciples to pray. But the Lord’s Prayer gives a template that sets the form for praying with the beads.

  • He wanted us to acknowledge God, who He is and His position in the Universe, and His position with us, His children.
  • He wanted us to recognize that it is God’s will that should drive our lives and decisions.
  • He wanted us to recognize the source of our daily physical sustenance and spiritual infusion, and seek it daily.
  • He wanted us to ask forgiveness for our trespasses, in accordance to the way we forgive others’ theirs.
  • And then he tells us evil exists and we need protection from it.

 

Using the prayer bead format to prepare your heart for Thanksgiving—

I think most, if not all of us, want to demonstrate grateful hearts on Thanksgiving Day, the ONE day a year set aside for it. Most of us are at least a little tuned into the meaning of the day rather than just on the feast and the shopping. (I do hope I’m right one that point!)

 

So how can we best prepare our hearts to give thanks? I’m talking about deeply felt thanks that moves your spirit to joy, and not just coming up with a quick list of things you’re grateful for.

Praying them, as the gratitude research indicates, is so life changing.

 

Don’t have prayer beads? No problem!

Even without your own prayer beads, you can do this. To get yourself focused and have something to follow, you may want to write down the order and take it into your “prayer room” with you.

Breathe deeply to normalize your breathing and settle your mind. When you’re engaged in purposeful, directed prayer, I find you’re far less likely to find your mind wandering. Always a bonus! And you’re also more open to the Spirit’s lead as He guides your thoughts in directions and to events and people you might not have had on your planned “prayer list.”

 

So well before the family and friends gather on Thursday, and you’re in crush-mode in the kitchen, I invite you to retreat to a quiet place—inside or out—with your prayer beads or prayer outline and be quieted, humbled, inspired and fulfilled!

In tune with your God.

More thankful in all ways and with all things and ready for your heart and soul to overflow with that thankfulness.

 

Let me know about your experience.

 

I will be praying that you have a joyful week, overflowing with gratefulness and Thanksgiving!

 

NEXT MONDAY we’ll head back to our regular gratitude posts.

 

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

The Art of Conscientious Eating: Healthful Meals plus Social Gatherings

Colors. Vibrant, fresh, appealing colors. Assorted textures and aromas. A feast for the senses.

That’s what we enjoyed on the Camino. Every day. And I’m not talking about the landscape.

I’m talking about food and meals. Especially dinner. Three courses nightly.

 

First things first—

Take a look at your lunch or dinner today. How many colors can you count in it? Reds, blues, dark greens. Purples or oranges, or both.

The healthiest diets include lots of colors, and usually six to eight simple ingredients. I thought I was doing a pretty good job of meeting these goals with my meal planning, but after eating on the Camino, I realized I wasn’t.

My meals were often boring and two or three-dimensional. And aside from our two-three times a week fish for dinner, it looked like the typical American plate:

Meat or protein focus surrounded by a small salad bowl side of salad, veggie, and grains, rice, or quinoa.

 

Scads of data is in, and the ugly truth is: a diet heavy on meat (including red, chicken, and pork) is deadly. But does that mean you have to take the leap to total vegetarianism to eat healthy?

No.

What you need to do is cut down on it. Way down. And I do mean w-a-y.

How much meat is enough?

No more than 3 oz. of it for any meal. And it’s even better if you can whittle that number down to 3 oz. of it for just one meal, like dinner.

The best choice, though, is to nix it for most of your meals and only consume it several times a month. Fish can be eaten more often.

We won’t go into the science behind it in today’s post, so, for now, you’ll need to take my word for it. But before you rant at your computer screen, or say, “No way will my husband give up his 6 oz. burger, Andrea!” let’s go for the baby steps. Starting with the statement I noted in this week’s Workout Wednesdays post:

 

“Start with the good and then weed out the bad.”

 

So how can you do that?

 

Applying the basics—

First, start by adding A LOT of variety to your meals. Tomatoes, carrots, onions, celery, garlic (garlic granules are actually the best way to go), spinach, leafy spring greens, power greens, kale, chard, romaine, roasted red peppers. Or broccoli and avocados. Crinkle cut sweet potatoes and hummus. Cucumbers, black-eyed peas, garbanzo beans (chickpeas), millet, quinoa and amaranth. Rolled oats, dried grapes, nuts, steel cut oats. Fresh grapes, oranges, bananas and pineapple. Apples of all colors, tart and sweet.

 

Then start assembling!

 

Select four or five ingredients for a LARGE salad or soup (like a carrot-ginger or butternut squash) as your first course. I’ll lay out two large dinner plates and spread mixed greens over each one. Sometimes it’s baby spinach alone (which I purchase in a bag or container), or a blend of power greens. (I’ve been avoiding Romaine lately due to the E. coli issue the United States has been experiencing with it.)

I’ll top the lettuce with fresh heirloom tomatoes, orange, red, dark red, or yellow or combinations. Organic, English or Persian cucumbers (yummy!), get added, and probably one avocado divided between the two of us. Sometimes carrot strips get sprinkled on, or garbanzo beans. You might add sliced strawberries for a sweet addition, but be careful about heavy-handedness with the dried fruit, like dried cranberries, which are all the rage right now. It’s too much sugar.

Top that with extra virgin olive oil and a little salt and garlic granules for the dressing. Or olive oil mixed with a little freshly squeezed lemon juice and salt. Sometimes I’ll add specialty salt, like Hawaiian, or Tai ginger salt. And when I’m growing fresh basil, I snip some leaves, roll them into little cigar shapes, cut and sprinkle that on the salad or blend it into the olive oil. Famous chef Julia Child said there was no reason to purchase salad dressing since it is so easy to make at home! Take her advice.

And voila! You have a substantial FIRST COURSE meal!

 

For the SECOND COURSE, make a ratatouille-like dish out of onions, carrots, celery, and eggplant in chicken broth. If you haven’t added garbanzos to your salad, consider adding them here. Or black-eyed peas (loaded with vitamins and protein). or white beans. Change the flavor by adding turmeric and ginger, powdered or root form. I sometimes make the base out of chicken broth, and add roasted red peppers I’ve pulverized in a blender or Bullet to add a little roasted sweetness. For thickener, I might add a little tomato paste, but not much.

 

BONUS: When you reduce your meat consumption, you’ll save a lot of money! Dollars you could use to purchase expensive organic fruits and veggies.

 

For the FINAL COURSE, or dessert, consider finishing off the meal with some figs or dried dates, or an orange. Or do as the French and top it off with assorted cheeses. Yum! Or skip the dessert altogether. Our family has never made dessert a must-have, so having dessert on the Camino everyday was an unusual treat.

 

And there you have it! A three-course meal that doesn’t take that long to make. Especially if you make sure you keep all of these fruit and veggie staples in your refrigerator or on your counter.

And if you do the smart thing and plate your meal before heading to the dinner table and put the remainder in a container in the refrigerator for the next day’s lunch or leftovers, you’ll be another step ahead!

 

When in Spain—

The Spaniards (at least the Northern residents) seem to love their meat, especially pork, and it was offered at every meal. But fish was plentiful. And the plate servings were substantial. So much so that you could get adequately full with the salad if you weren’t walking five to six hours a day.

So with all of that meat-eating, how does that country end up besting the United States by so many places in longevity?

Spain is tied for 4th on the list along with Australia. The United States showed up way down the list at 31. (The standings/rankings change only slightly depending upon what list you reference.)

 

So, what’s their secret?

 

After really observing the French and Spanish culture in the areas we traveled through, I think I hit on at least one significant game-changing factor, aside from the fact that the physical contrast between these Europeans and Americans was dramatic to us when we returned. The Europeans looked healthier, slimmer and happier, while the Americans back home looked fat, frumpy and unhappy.

Very unhappy.

 

Turning a meal into a social extravaganza!

Did you know that ½ of Americans experience loneliness? They feel lonely most of the time. And that loneliness can drive people’s diseases and increase the death rate by 50% percent. Yes, loneliness is that powerful.

What a shame. In a world where we’re “more connected” to one another than we’ve ever been we aren’t truly connected, and we suffer loneliness.

 

Did you know that having social connections is the #1 indicator of whether you will live a longer, happy life.

 

And that’s one of the most significant things we experienced on the Camino:learning to take the time to enjoy your meal with family and friends.

Something we’d always done when our boys were younger but had lost the art of doing.

 

Who really knows what the Iberian Peninsula residents do during their siesta times, but after those siesta hours they hit the streets—to shop for dinner ingredients and gather together to smoke (and smoke and smoke), enjoy a glass of wine and talk and laugh and talk and laugh and talk and laugh. Before dinner. While mom and dad socialized and snacked with friends, the kids wheeled around the squares on their scooters or booted soccer balls between one another.

 

They were building and nurturing relationships, around eating.

 

How different that is from so many Americans who throw together a meal without paying attention to its life-robbing ingredients, or open up bags of fast food containers and spread that out on the kitchen table for everyone to grab and wolf down farm style.

With text messages clicking back and forth between friends, and parents reading newspapers, watching the news, or chatting on their phones. Or the family meal is skipped altogether for sports practice, and everyone ends up eating alone, or in the car.

 

My younger son said the Italians enjoy meals the same way as the Spaniards. If so, it shows. Italy ranks #7 in longevity. (The World Health Organization—WHO—lists different rankings for men and women.)

 

Scientists now know that eating while socializing actually changes your physiology, for the better.

 

It has a huge impact on our well-being.

We seriously need to rethink how we do food and dining in the United States!

 

Applying it to Thanksgiving and Christmas—

With these two food-laden celebrations upon us, how can you put some fo this knowledge to work and turn over a new food leaf now without waiting for the New Year to grind it out?

Here are some changes to start this year:

  • Buy a smaller turkey, so the meat isn’t the huge centerpiece of the meal.
  • Provide several selections of veggies, with colorful choices.
  • Have some cooked and raw vegetable selections.
  • Provide the fixings for a big salad. (Turkey slices on a salad are delicious!)
  • Keep any cream-based selections to a minimum.
  • Provide alternative selections to the heavy (overly sweetened desserts).
  • Set out good snacks, like grapes, nuts, cheeses, and berries for people to snack on before they eat.
  • Don’t fill the house up with sweets and cookies, in lieu of healthful food.

 

And make sure your friends, co-workers, and classmates have a place to spend the day. Treat them like you would family.

 

Do as much preparing before the day as possible in order to reduce the stress of the day. And take joy in the preparing you do do on that day.

Make sure everyone chips in to help in some way, so no single person feels burdened and alone in preparing.

And try to stretch the meal out as much as possible, with the meal resembling more of a 3-course or more meal. Guaranteed all of you will eat less and feel better nourished and more satisfied!

 

So until next Friday, when we’ll talk more about keeping the Camino going back home, take some time for that alternative planning and food purchasing.

 

And try NOT to make Costco or Sam’s Club your go-to supermercardo!

 

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).