How to Have a Living Hope (and Not Waste Your Journey)

The prayer chain email I received last Thursday rattled me. Not for the tremendous burden and need the requester noted—which was, indeed, grievous—but for the depth and spiritual maturity of its perspective.

 

The Christian sister requesting prayer said she had just been diagnosed with a rare and particularly aggressive ovarian cancer. Just being diagnosed with any kind of ovarian cancer is enough to strike terror in the sufferer because ovarian cancer is usually not diagnosed until Stage 4; and the 5-survival rate is around 17%. My own precious cousin, Jan, died of the dreaded disease (after a valiant, grace-filled battle) ten years ago this month while only in her forties.

She’s recovering from surgery to remove large tumors and begins chemotherapy in two and a half weeks. She sounded confident in the family she is blessed with and her “army of supporters.” (Oh, God, that we would all be so blessed when tragedy strikes us!) Because of this support, she says she can make the most of every day that God will grant her.

Then she listed her prayer requests.

 

First, she wants to remember that God, not she, is in control.

Second, [recognizing] that “God is most interested in what’s happening in the part of me that can’t be touched, scanned, or medicated.”

Last on the list was that she not waste the time she has [left] despairing or seeking comfort about her disease or the outcome. She was bold in her statement:

 

“I will only waste my journey with cancer if I seek comfort or despair about my odds, rather than look to know what God can do with me.”

 

She completed her email request by saying she claimed Jesus’ authority and denied Satan [working] in her life.

 

After reading her email—which I read three times—I sucked in my breath. Hard.

Certainly all of this is probably easier to say before chemotherapy flattens her and leaves her feeling as though she’s been run over by a semi-truck; when the only time she can drag herself out of bed is when she has to maintain a vigil in the bathroom, lying on the cold tile next to the toilet, in wait of having to relieve her stomach of its contents.

When she undergoes the process of being poisoned to death in order to eradicate mutated cells that are already killing her. Before she’s really knee deep into this battle.

 

I don’t personally know this sister—whether she is, by nature, as stoic and brave as this email sounds. But clearly she has sought the Lord, the Holy Spirit has spoken to her, and she is ready to confront her disease and this potential earthly death sentence with all the strength, faith, grace, and hope of a believer steeped (and believing) in the promises of Jesus Christ and her true, future hope.

She has put this—and life—in true perspective.

 

And I was awed.

 

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For me, her prayers and requests are powerful enough to warrant writing down and carrying around with me, to pull out and re-read when metaphorical lightning strikes my life, or I am tempted to whine about inconveniences and aggravating hiccups that cause bumps in my road.

And it was a punctuation mark to my earlier reading about Bethel Music founder and pastor Brian Johnson’s battle with and recovery from depression. He described it as going through six months of “hell” and having to be taken to a hospital when he suffered a nervous breakdown.

When the ambulance arrived at his Redding, California, home, he said to his kids: “This is when God becomes real.”

Isn’t that the truth!

The experience prompted him to write the popular worship song “Living Hope.”

And after watching the YouTube video of Bethel Music singing this heart-churner, I thought about some options for inscriptions on my tombstone:

 

Jesus Christ, My Living Hope

Hallelujah!

The Grave Has No Claim on Me!

 

It sounds as though this dear sister is already claiming these truths as she faces the biggest battle of her earthly life.

Her hope is built on Jesus Christ and the power of His death and Resurrection.

May it be so for all of us.

I promise that you won’t be able to stay seated long during this song.

And if watching that isn’t enough to get your motor going, here’s a Bethel song bonus: “Raise a Hallelujah.”

(*The journal picture and entry is a photo found on unsplash.com.)

Until next week, no matter what you’re facing, raise your own hallelujah to the Lord!

Blessings,

Andrea


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The Brain Benefits of Tai Chi

I think most of us who have traveled around the sun 50 revolutions or more know that our “older” age translates to a duller, slower brain. In fact, cognitive changes start occurring at the age of 50. Some of the things we lose are our ability to rapidly process information and focus on details.

By age 70 one in six people has mild cognitive impairment—almost 17% of us! If you can do something now to prevent ending up being part of that sorry statistic, then I would say have at it!

 

Old beliefs about brain function and plasticity—

It wasn’t that long ago that scientists believed that the brain, once you reached adulthood, stopped changing. That it lacked plasticity—the ability of the brain to change throughout a person’s life.

That’s what I was taught in college. It was depressing.

Thankfully, scientists discovered that their theories were wrong, and it’s not true. The brain actually changes throughout a person’s life, and what we do—or don’t do—has a dramatic effect on those changes.

Now scientists know that the brain can:

  • Grow new cells (which means it has some capacity for repair)
  • Make new connections
  • Increase in size

And all of these bonuses can improve cognitive function.

 

What helps the brain get sharper?

We now know that cognitive exercises, learning new things, socializing and exercise can improve brain function and keep it in top condition for longer than expected. In fact, some neuroscientists say that when you’re exercising the body, you’re really exercising the brain.

But what exercises are good at keeping the brain in top form, or actually improving its function?

 

It turns out that the internal martial art of tai chi is a real winner because it offers exceptional brain benefits.

 

Harvard Health noted a meta-analysis (statistical procedure for combining data from multiple studies) of 20 studies on tai chi’s effects on cognition. What they found in people with cognitive decline was that tai chi appears to improve their:

  • Ability to multitask
  • Manage time, and
  • Make decisions

 

In those suffering mild cognitive impairment, tai chi’s slow, precise movements slowed the progression so all-out dementia more than any other types of exercise.

And it improved cognitive function in a similar or comparable way to other types of exercise or cognitive training.

 

That’s a big deal!

 

More good news about tai chi—

In one study, 400 Chinese men and women with the same cognitive impairment performed either tai chi or a stretching-toning combination program, 3 times a week for a year.

A year later, tai chi participants showed greater improvements in cognition and only 2% of them showed progression to dementia.

For the group doing only the traditional stretching-toning program, 11% progressed to dementia.

 

How does tai chi compare to walking?

Tai chi won that competition too.

When researchers compared tai chi to walking, social interaction, and no intervention, the MRIs of the participants’ brains showed that the brain volume of the tai chi exercisers had increased the most. So they won the brain volume contest, too.

And this happy group also performed better on cognitive tests.

 

I think I’m going to order a tai chi for beginners DVD. I tried it once before, but I got my DVDs from the library and had to return them before I had a good handle on the activity. I also took a tai chi class on the beach years ago during a Mexico getaway. And in college, I watched a friend of mine participate in the activity. He really bought into the spiritual aspect and acted a little weird about it.

 

The precise tai chi movements were harder than I thought they’d be, with the slow, deliberate motions, but I could tell right away that my balance would improve tremendously with sustained participation. And I would most likely benefit from the meditative aspect of the exercise. Although therein lies a word of caution.

 

Warning about tai chi—

Tai chi is an Eastern, internal martial art developed by a Taoist monk. It’s based on that religion—Taoism. So I would warn anyone participating in the exercise to drop the Taoist meditations and focus and zero in on Jesus, the Holy Spirit and His presence. Use it as a mind-centering exercise, without emptying your mind and opening the door to any old spirit looking for a place to entrench itself.

Be very careful what you open yourself up to.

You can reap the benefits of tai chi without sacrificing your soul or beliefs.

 

NEXT WEEK we’ll look closely at what makes tai chi such a successful activity. What are its special components?

Until then, think about adding different exercise routines to your repertoire, expanding yourself to something besides walking. Your brain will likely thank you for it.

Blessings,

Andrea

The Important of Daily Stretching: Reducing Injury and the Effects of Aging

A lot of folks think stretching is just for athletes, young people, or yoga and Pilates devotees.

 

Nothing could be further from the truth.

 

Stretching is important at all stages of life to maintain healthy, fluid and well-oiled joints, functioning muscles, balance and flexibility. It also helps reaction time.

Stretching should be a part of everyone’s daily wellness routine.

As gymnasts, we usually stretched as a group, before and following practice. Sometimes we helped each other stretch. The encouragement and aid helped.

 

Wouldn’t it be nice to have a buddy, or guide, take you through a dedicated stretching routine?

Stretch help is on the way!

 

It turns out that a big massage chain has done just that—developed a dedicated stretching program.

Experts, who, between them, have 85 collective years of studying the functional movements of professional athletes and performers, have developed it through extensive research.

The method consists of ten targeted stretches that work from your top down. The stretches are designed to help your muscles reach their maximum flexibility.

The stretches are designed to be to be slow and deliberate traction techniques. The stretch “providers” take you through this guided stretching, which gently moves you beyond your resistance points. The goal is to increase circulation, reduce tension from the head down to your toes and improved muscle function.

The providers—who are knowledgeable in kinesiology (study of human movement) and anatomy—are all professionally trained and certified in the technique.

Sessions can be enjoyed in thirty or sixty-minute increments.

 

My opinion—

I haven’t given it a go yet. I’ll need to wait for my knee injury to calm down (since one of the stretches involves kneeling and leaning back on your heals) before trying it out. But I’m excited about the possibilities.

It’s a lot more fun and effective to have a “coach” guiding you through movements and workouts. And I’m going to guess that includes stretching!

Until next Wednesday, keep stretching and flexing that body! Ease and joy of movement can make life so much more enjoyable.

Blessings,

Andrea

 


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The Importance of Daily Stretching—Reducing the Effects of Aging Part II

I’ve been doing an extra amount of stretching lately. It wasn’t planned. It’s just become a necessity.

Just as my right knee was beginning to show signs of returning to normal post-arthroscopy, I somehow managed to muck up my left knee.

So, now I’m dealing with a severe hamstring strain, severe lower leg pain, and knee instability, which leads me to believe that there’s something going on internally, structure-wise.

 

But since I know there’s a hamstring involved, that means extra, daily, MILD stretching to keep the muscle and tendon elongated for healing. If I don’t do that, then I run the risk of scar tissue healing in a shortened muscle state, which means whenever I stress it in the future, the scar tissue will likely tear again, I’ll get more bleeding in the muscle and subsequent re-injury. It will be a never-ending, ugly cycle of tear, bleed, repeat.

The reason that happens is that muscle doesn’t heal well. If you have a decent muscle strain, which involves tearing and a void in the muscle belly, you will usually get scar tissue replacing the muscle—hard, tough, non-elastic scar tissue. That’s why you want that muscle on a stretch during healing, so the scar tissue formed will be long and less likely to tear again with muscle contraction.

 

Get yourself a helpful stretching reference—

To help me in my recovery, I’ve pulled a book off my library shelf to help me in my efforts, one we considered to be the gold standard for stretching.

Stretching by Bob Anderson. He even does the illustrations, which are simple, straightforward, and easy to comprehend. It’s a fabulous book that I had to purchase as a textbook in college. It really is stretching 101 for beginners to advanced athletic participants and exercisers.

You can pick up the 30th anniversary edition, which has been expanded for home office and computer users as well as wheelchair athletes. It’s still the one recommended by sports professionals.

 

Here’s what the back cover blurb says,

“This is the book that people tell their friends about, that trainers suggest for virtually every sport and activity, and that medical professionals recommend to people just starting to get back in shape. Stretching first appeared in 1980 as a new generation of Americans became committed to running, cycling, aerobic training, and workouts in the gym — all of which are commonplace now.

It features stretching routines specific to a variety of people, including sports enthusiasts, travelers, children, gardeners, and people in wheelchairs. There is also an abbreviated version of each routine for people in a hurry, new information on the stretching vs. warming up debate, and new and improved drawings. This 30th anniversary edition features two-color inks to better define the muscle groups helped by each stretching exercise. A new section focuses on office fitness exercises, helpful for both home and office computer users.”

 

If you’re up against a muscle injury, make sure you add ice treatment to the stretching regimen. I often ice while stretching or ice afterward. And you really want to make sure you’re doing static, not bounce stretching for an injury. You don’t want little microscopic tears adding to the problem.

Stretching is a must for injury recovery, as long as you aren’t too eager and end up doing more damage. But it’s important at any age and stage of life to keep your muscles, tendons and joints healthy, lubricated, and working at their peak for you.

I can’t stress that enough. Get up and get out and stretch that body! All of it. Consider getting a buddy to stretch with. Teammates help each other stretch all of the time. Do you remember sitting toe-to-toe with a classmate in gym class and stretching each other back and forth?

I have a stretch buddy, myself. Although she hinders my stretching efforts more than helps them. She’s so adorable I can’t refuse her. And she gets my day going with a good belly laugh!

 

Every time I lean over to do leg stretches, my Shetland sheepdog, Dolly, thinks I’m leaning over to play with her. She doesn’t give up or relent, either. So I often pick her up and swing her back and forth while I’m doing side-to-side stretching. Her legs motor mid-air at a mile-a-minute, and she tries to lick me to death.

If I really want to concentrate and focus, I have to put her outside or seal myself in my bedroom. Our cat, Tibbs, used to help my younger son stretch—by strolling over and parking himself on Cory’s chest when he lay down on the floor to stretch. Cory said stretching never was the same after that precious tabby of ours died.

 

Good stretching memories!

 

Whatever age and stage of activity (or injury recovery) you’re in, you WILL benefit immensely from daily stretching. And you will benefit from Bob Anderson’s book. I promise. (I do not make any money from referrals or promotions of his book.)

 

NEXT WEEK I’ll tell you about a new stretching program being offered at my massage therapy facility. Sounds interesting, and evidently it’s been developed after a lot of research and professional input. I’m excited to give it a test run, but I’ll need to wait until I can completely bend this left knee to participate.

Hopefully I won’t need to recover from yet another surgery first!

 

Until then, keep those limbs and joints moving,

Andrea

 


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Chicken Soup for the Soul Twitter Party!

Ever attended a Twitter Party? I hadn’t, until today, and it was fun!

The event was to celebrate Chicken Soup for the Soul’s release of their new book Life Lessons from the Cat. I was invited to participate because I’m a contributing story author.

Seeing so many of the contributing authors and their feline heroes and heroines was exciting—putting whiskers and fur to the stories.

 

My story was about our grey and black Tabby, Sergeant Tibbs, who brought home an undesirable playmate on a spring outing several years ago. My precocious buddy has since gone on to catnip heaven, and we miss him terribly. As my younger son pointed out when he came home from college for a college break one year, the fact that Tibbs was gone was driven home by the fact that Tibbs didn’t appear to sit on Cory’s back or chest when he lay on the family room floor to do sit ups, push ups, or take a nap. His passing left a big void in our lives.

 

If you’d like to follow me on Twitter, my “handle” is @AndreaOwan.

 

How to get a signed copy of Life Lessons from the Cat!

 And if you’d like a signed copy of Life Lessons from the Cat (just released today, May 14), I have 5 copies available! A signed copy would cost $13.00. Retail price is $14.95. Amazon is selling it for $9.97. Of course, if you order it from Amazon, it won’t be signed by me.

Life Lessons from the Cat royalties go to American-Humane.

Just email me at andreaarthurowan@gmail.com, and I’ll give you directions for paying for the book via PayPal. Please provide me with your shipping address too! Once your payment is processed, I’ll sign a copy and ship it to you!

This book is loaded with heartwarming stories of healing, hysteria and cat hijinks! A great gift for yourself, or any cat lover in your family or friends circle.

 

See you back here Friday!

Blessings,

Andrea

PS The photo is of Tibbs in his favorite napping location—a comfy, COOL porcelain bathroom sink!