The Art of Conscientious Eating: Healthful Meals plus Social Gatherings

Colors. Vibrant, fresh, appealing colors. Assorted textures and aromas. A feast for the senses.

That’s what we enjoyed on the Camino. Every day. And I’m not talking about the landscape.

I’m talking about food and meals. Especially dinner. Three courses nightly.

 

First things first—

Take a look at your lunch or dinner today. How many colors can you count in it? Reds, blues, dark greens. Purples or oranges, or both.

The healthiest diets include lots of colors, and usually six to eight simple ingredients. I thought I was doing a pretty good job of meeting these goals with my meal planning, but after eating on the Camino, I realized I wasn’t.

My meals were often boring and two or three-dimensional. And aside from our two-three times a week fish for dinner, it looked like the typical American plate:

Meat or protein focus surrounded by a small salad bowl side of salad, veggie, and grains, rice, or quinoa.

 

Scads of data is in, and the ugly truth is: a diet heavy on meat (including red, chicken, and pork) is deadly. But does that mean you have to take the leap to total vegetarianism to eat healthy?

No.

What you need to do is cut down on it. Way down. And I do mean w-a-y.

How much meat is enough?

No more than 3 oz. of it for any meal. And it’s even better if you can whittle that number down to 3 oz. of it for just one meal, like dinner.

The best choice, though, is to nix it for most of your meals and only consume it several times a month. Fish can be eaten more often.

We won’t go into the science behind it in today’s post, so, for now, you’ll need to take my word for it. But before you rant at your computer screen, or say, “No way will my husband give up his 6 oz. burger, Andrea!” let’s go for the baby steps. Starting with the statement I noted in this week’s Workout Wednesdays post:

 

“Start with the good and then weed out the bad.”

 

So how can you do that?

 

Applying the basics—

First, start by adding A LOT of variety to your meals. Tomatoes, carrots, onions, celery, garlic (garlic granules are actually the best way to go), spinach, leafy spring greens, power greens, kale, chard, romaine, roasted red peppers. Or broccoli and avocados. Crinkle cut sweet potatoes and hummus. Cucumbers, black-eyed peas, garbanzo beans (chickpeas), millet, quinoa and amaranth. Rolled oats, dried grapes, nuts, steel cut oats. Fresh grapes, oranges, bananas and pineapple. Apples of all colors, tart and sweet.

 

Then start assembling!

 

Select four or five ingredients for a LARGE salad or soup (like a carrot-ginger or butternut squash) as your first course. I’ll lay out two large dinner plates and spread mixed greens over each one. Sometimes it’s baby spinach alone (which I purchase in a bag or container), or a blend of power greens. (I’ve been avoiding Romaine lately due to the E. coli issue the United States has been experiencing with it.)

I’ll top the lettuce with fresh heirloom tomatoes, orange, red, dark red, or yellow or combinations. Organic, English or Persian cucumbers (yummy!), get added, and probably one avocado divided between the two of us. Sometimes carrot strips get sprinkled on, or garbanzo beans. You might add sliced strawberries for a sweet addition, but be careful about heavy-handedness with the dried fruit, like dried cranberries, which are all the rage right now. It’s too much sugar.

Top that with extra virgin olive oil and a little salt and garlic granules for the dressing. Or olive oil mixed with a little freshly squeezed lemon juice and salt. Sometimes I’ll add specialty salt, like Hawaiian, or Tai ginger salt. And when I’m growing fresh basil, I snip some leaves, roll them into little cigar shapes, cut and sprinkle that on the salad or blend it into the olive oil. Famous chef Julia Child said there was no reason to purchase salad dressing since it is so easy to make at home! Take her advice.

And voila! You have a substantial FIRST COURSE meal!

 

For the SECOND COURSE, make a ratatouille-like dish out of onions, carrots, celery, and eggplant in chicken broth. If you haven’t added garbanzos to your salad, consider adding them here. Or black-eyed peas (loaded with vitamins and protein). or white beans. Change the flavor by adding turmeric and ginger, powdered or root form. I sometimes make the base out of chicken broth, and add roasted red peppers I’ve pulverized in a blender or Bullet to add a little roasted sweetness. For thickener, I might add a little tomato paste, but not much.

 

BONUS: When you reduce your meat consumption, you’ll save a lot of money! Dollars you could use to purchase expensive organic fruits and veggies.

 

For the FINAL COURSE, or dessert, consider finishing off the meal with some figs or dried dates, or an orange. Or do as the French and top it off with assorted cheeses. Yum! Or skip the dessert altogether. Our family has never made dessert a must-have, so having dessert on the Camino everyday was an unusual treat.

 

And there you have it! A three-course meal that doesn’t take that long to make. Especially if you make sure you keep all of these fruit and veggie staples in your refrigerator or on your counter.

And if you do the smart thing and plate your meal before heading to the dinner table and put the remainder in a container in the refrigerator for the next day’s lunch or leftovers, you’ll be another step ahead!

 

When in Spain—

The Spaniards (at least the Northern residents) seem to love their meat, especially pork, and it was offered at every meal. But fish was plentiful. And the plate servings were substantial. So much so that you could get adequately full with the salad if you weren’t walking five to six hours a day.

So with all of that meat-eating, how does that country end up besting the United States by so many places in longevity?

Spain is tied for 4th on the list along with Australia. The United States showed up way down the list at 31. (The standings/rankings change only slightly depending upon what list you reference.)

 

So, what’s their secret?

 

After really observing the French and Spanish culture in the areas we traveled through, I think I hit on at least one significant game-changing factor, aside from the fact that the physical contrast between these Europeans and Americans was dramatic to us when we returned. The Europeans looked healthier, slimmer and happier, while the Americans back home looked fat, frumpy and unhappy.

Very unhappy.

 

Turning a meal into a social extravaganza!

Did you know that ½ of Americans experience loneliness? They feel lonely most of the time. And that loneliness can drive people’s diseases and increase the death rate by 50% percent. Yes, loneliness is that powerful.

What a shame. In a world where we’re “more connected” to one another than we’ve ever been we aren’t truly connected, and we suffer loneliness.

 

Did you know that having social connections is the #1 indicator of whether you will live a longer, happy life.

 

And that’s one of the most significant things we experienced on the Camino:learning to take the time to enjoy your meal with family and friends.

Something we’d always done when our boys were younger but had lost the art of doing.

 

Who really knows what the Iberian Peninsula residents do during their siesta times, but after those siesta hours they hit the streets—to shop for dinner ingredients and gather together to smoke (and smoke and smoke), enjoy a glass of wine and talk and laugh and talk and laugh and talk and laugh. Before dinner. While mom and dad socialized and snacked with friends, the kids wheeled around the squares on their scooters or booted soccer balls between one another.

 

They were building and nurturing relationships, around eating.

 

How different that is from so many Americans who throw together a meal without paying attention to its life-robbing ingredients, or open up bags of fast food containers and spread that out on the kitchen table for everyone to grab and wolf down farm style.

With text messages clicking back and forth between friends, and parents reading newspapers, watching the news, or chatting on their phones. Or the family meal is skipped altogether for sports practice, and everyone ends up eating alone, or in the car.

 

My younger son said the Italians enjoy meals the same way as the Spaniards. If so, it shows. Italy ranks #7 in longevity. (The World Health Organization—WHO—lists different rankings for men and women.)

 

Scientists now know that eating while socializing actually changes your physiology, for the better.

 

It has a huge impact on our well-being.

We seriously need to rethink how we do food and dining in the United States!

 

Applying it to Thanksgiving and Christmas—

With these two food-laden celebrations upon us, how can you put some fo this knowledge to work and turn over a new food leaf now without waiting for the New Year to grind it out?

Here are some changes to start this year:

  • Buy a smaller turkey, so the meat isn’t the huge centerpiece of the meal.
  • Provide several selections of veggies, with colorful choices.
  • Have some cooked and raw vegetable selections.
  • Provide the fixings for a big salad. (Turkey slices on a salad are delicious!)
  • Keep any cream-based selections to a minimum.
  • Provide alternative selections to the heavy (overly sweetened desserts).
  • Set out good snacks, like grapes, nuts, cheeses, and berries for people to snack on before they eat.
  • Don’t fill the house up with sweets and cookies, in lieu of healthful food.

 

And make sure your friends, co-workers, and classmates have a place to spend the day. Treat them like you would family.

 

Do as much preparing before the day as possible in order to reduce the stress of the day. And take joy in the preparing you do do on that day.

Make sure everyone chips in to help in some way, so no single person feels burdened and alone in preparing.

And try to stretch the meal out as much as possible, with the meal resembling more of a 3-course or more meal. Guaranteed all of you will eat less and feel better nourished and more satisfied!

 

So until next Friday, when we’ll talk more about keeping the Camino going back home, take some time for that alternative planning and food purchasing.

 

And try NOT to make Costco or Sam’s Club your go-to supermercardo!

 

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

Enjoying the Benefits of Not Reading

FOR MY Free-for-All Friday posts, I often refer to and recommend a book I’ve been reading, one I think you’d enjoy or that could grow or enlarge your faith. But I haven’t read much the last month, which, for an author who’s a voracious reader, is really unordinary. I was enjoying the benefits that come from not having my eyes plastered to the words in a book or magazine or characters in a text or email.

Spending 25 days on a pilgrimage can do that to you. Change your focus.

But I don’t mean to imply that I didn’t read anything. I read—and tried to decipher—signs written in foreign languages. (I’m happy to say that, for the most part, I did pretty well with this!)

I also read special pilgrim maps, so we wouldn’t get lost or miss one of those special yellow and blue shell signs marking the route. (Our biggest obstacle to this was getting our brains used to the British-sourced maps that direct you to the top of the page for south, rather than the other way around. I never did get my brain adjusted. Thankfully, Chris did!)

And I read brief historical literature or pamphlets about the towns, villages, castles or churches we visited, and the people who made them famous.

And I read a few bus terminal signs and restaurant menus. And several texts from my kids. But not very many. And I wrote several brief ones in return. On Chris’s phone.

 

Satisfying a goal—

Part of our pilgrimage goal—mentally, physically and spiritually—was to deliberately divest ourselves of the daily anxieties of life. Like staying engaged in the endless world discourse, reading breaking news flashes, television-scrolling news briefs, texts and emails so we could “be in the know.” Instead, we wanted to be fully engaged in our moment-by-moment experiences. Undistracted from the here and now. Totally absorbed in where the map and our feet took us, in the conversations shared (and I do mean shared) at festival seating meal tables, in the geography of the land, and in the habits of its inhabitants.

 

Totally absorbed in what was happening to our bodies, minds and spirits.

 

I didn’t lug along a computer. My iPad rested peacefully in its pocket in my desk cabinet back home. I didn’t bring a magazine or book to kill time during down times. From the moment our plane lifted off the John F. Kennedy International Airport runway on its way to Paris and I returned home 26 days later, my phone was engaged in Airplane mode. (Actually, it took me two additional days after returning home to shut off the Airplane Mode toggle.) I had it along only to take pictures, and if a dire emergency warranted a call. It never did.

Frankly, I was surprised at how quickly and happily my brain and five senses responded to this new program.

They became fully engaged and magnified as they absorbed the sights, sounds and smells of pastoral settings brimming with sheep, cattle and horses, succulent green grasses, dank and mildewed medieval churches and monasteries, lazy rivers, spring-fed, dripping water fountains, the excited conversations of expectant pilgrims ready to start their journeys, the laughter of people enjoying al fresco dining and intimate conversations, the tick-tick-tick of un-capped hiking poles on cobbled streets.

And that was just on the first day!

My brain was so busy absorbing the sensory input I focused on that it didn’t have an opportunity to log one iota of regret at what it was missing out on.

 

And for the first time in a very long time my brain and I felt fully alive!

And so very grateful to be so.

In my last Free-for-All Friday post, I mentioned that I would be on a pilgrimage to discover a body and soul waltz. Now that my official pilgrimage is over for now, I can tell you my body and my soul quickly embraced the new tempo and melded together in perfect timing and rhythm, playing off of one another and gliding in synchrony.

It was a dance I didn’t want to end, and I’m making sure it won’t.

Next week Friday I’ll tell you how I’m accomplishing that. Maybe you’ll find some ideas and tips to accomplish the same things in your life.

I hope so.

But please join me this coming Monday when we’ll start preparing our hearts and minds for Thanksgiving!

Until then,

engage all of your senses in the moment. Be not only conscious but conscientious in every thought, word and life nuance.

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).
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Memorial Day: Those Who Gave the Ultimate Sacrifice

I’ve never served in the military, but I’m the daughter of a man who did. A man who sacrificed three and a half years of his prime to defend our country and Europe from Nazi aggression. Halfway around the world, his younger brother combatted Japanese aggression in the Pacific and Asia.

My mother said he left one man and returned another, completely and forever changed. “He was never the same,” she said. While she remembers him the “way he was,” I only knew him the way he returned.

And he wasn’t alone. None of the returning warriors were the same. How could they be?

But he was luckier than many, because he did come home. To my mother’s arms and a good life and the ability to dream dreams and pursue them.

Millions have not been so fortunate. Those who fell on battlefields around the world, including United States soil, at a time when we weren’t so united.

 

Today, in the United States, we remember these fallen, and we say a grateful prayer of thanks. That they were able and willing to fight to defend our way of life, our freedoms.

But I can’t talk about Memorial Day like a former warrior can. A warrior who knows intimately what terror, hate, and evil our service men and women face in battle on land, on sea, and in the air.

In his emotional opinion piece, Ex-SEAL, Jocko Willink, reminds us to remember the warriors who made the supreme sacrifice. And through your remembering, not wasting the time you have on Earth.

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2018/05/25/ex-seal-jocko-willink-remember-warriors-who-made-supreme-sacrifice-dont-waste-your-time-on-earth.html

 

In gratefulness to those who made the ultimate sacrifice for the land I so dearly love,

Andrea

Photo credit: Flickr pool photo by Jeff Reardon

When Life Zigs When You Wanted to Zag

Ever experience a life zig when you planned to zag?

That’s what happened to me last week, when I went to the periodontist for what I thought was only going to be a consultation and ended up having a muscle in my mouth, that was pulling my gum down, cut.

Yup. Cut.

OUCH!

So, a bloody, painful afternoon later, I didn’t manage to get the planned worldview post written for you, before heading to Philadelphia on Thursday to work with the Guideposts editors and eleven other Guideposts contributing writers for an intensive weekend of writing stories work.

And I’ll be on hiatus next Monday too, after spending a week celebrating the college graduation of my younger son.

It will be a week of balanced, and joyful living!

Until May 21! Then we’ll continue with the great thinkers of history.

Blessings,

Andrea

Worldview: Can You Put Your Faith Into a Logical Explanation?

Were you able to answer last week’s worldview questions—

  • What’s your worldview?
  • Why do you believe what you believe?
  • Who’s had the greatest influence in your life, and why?

Perhaps you were able to write down what you believe in several sentences, even though you might not have been able to put a title to the worldview philosophy it fell under.

But I’m going to guess that answering Why you believe what you do might be tougher to answer.

 

 A story of worldview failure and the lifelong negative effects—

I once asked a friend why she’d become an atheist, and she revealed to me that one day in Sunday School class, when she was a little girl, she asked her Sunday school teacher: “Why do you believe that? How do you know that’s true?” The answer she received from her Sunday school teacher was less than affirming, or confirming, and it would have a lasting, dramatic affect on my friend’s life and faith.

What was the teacher’s answer?

“I just know it’s true.” That’s it. No defense, no apologetics, no explanation to satisfy the thoughtful curiosity of a very inquisitive child. (My friend would go on to become an investigative journalist). My friend claims she was so frustrated and disgusted that she lost all faith in God or Christianity, because, as far as she could see, even her teacher didn’t know why she believed what she professed to believe. Thirty years later, my friend still had a tone of disdain in her voice for that teacher, who definitely let this seeking little girl down. With a thud.

 

What’s the moral of that story?

The Apostle Peter provides it in his first personal letters to Christian believers. The Amplified Bible gives a great, thoughtful rendering—

“But in your hearts set Christ apart [as holy—acknowledging Him, giving Him first place in your lives] as Lord. Always be ready to give a [logical] defense to anyone who asks you to account for the hope and confident assurance [elicited by faith] that is within you, yet [do it] with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:25).

 

The CEV version gives it to us short and sweet:

“Honor Christ and let him be the Lord of your life. Always be ready to give an answer when someone asks you about your hope.”

 

But many of us can’t put our faith into a logical explanation. Or we use a lot of Christian-speak that flies right over the head of unbelievers. They end up looking at us with glazed eyeballs, no closer to the truth than they were before asking us. Or, worse yet, they wind up moving farther away from a life-saving faith!

Because we’re not always ready to give an answer to someone when they ask us about our hope. We can’t give a logical defense for our beliefs. And you can imagine what that leaves them thinking about those beliefs and us.

Throughout history there have been a lot of thinkers and writers whose beliefs and teachings have had a profound impact on us. When they philosophized about life, their thoughts usually centered on God and His existence, or non-existence. Their beliefs have colored our world without us being aware of it.

When my friend didn’t get the answer she was seeking, she sought knowledge elsewhere. These thinkers colored her worldview and shaped her beliefs. They provided—what seemed to her—to be cogent answers to life’s big questions. And these thoughts have been guiding her life and decisions for decades.

 

Next week—

We’ll begin looking at 19 of the most well known thinkers and philosophers of all time and will specifically explore what these men thought about God in human history. Your knowledge of their thoughts, conclusions, and how they intersect, or diverge from, God’s word is important for living a true, well-balanced life.

 

 

But let me leave you with several questions to ponder before I sign off:

 

 

  • How would you have answered my friend? When she was little? Now—as an adult?
  • Have you taken Peter’s instructions to heart? Are you ready to give anyone who asks a logical explanation for your faith when they ask about it?

 

Thanks for joining me! I’d love it if you’d take a moment to make a comment! And please share this post with a friend you think might be interested in the topic. Maybe someone you’d love to enjoy a philosophical discussion with!

 

Until next week,

may you always be ready to logically explain your faith and hope—in much joy, gentleness and thanksgiving!

 

Blessings,

Andrea

May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

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