How to Improve Your Happiness with Future-Mindedness!

In a recent newsletter, Greater Good Science Center’s Greater Good Magazine (online) managing editor, Kira Newman, highlighted three main takeaways from her recent excursion to Melbourne, Australia, where researchers from over 60 countries gathered for the International Positive Psychology Association’s 6th World Congress. She said that the findings the researchers shared “added depth and complexity to our understanding of major keys to a flourishing life.”

We’ve already looked at how positive solitude and feeling active can increase happiness.

Today we’ll do the final installment with:

Future-mindedness.

 

How much do you plan and daydream?

Do you still daydream, make a mental (or literal) list of things you’d like to accomplish tomorrow, next week, next month or next year? Even though they don’t always come to fruition (and we intuitively know they won’t all bear fruit), it turns out that our future ponderings actually contribute to our happiness and well-being.

Newman gives a run-down of what social psychologist Roy Baumeister presented at the conference.

 

“Happy and optimistic people tend to think about the future more often than their less-upbeat counterparts. Thinking about the future seems to come in two flavors: First we dream big and imagine fantasy outcomes; then, we ‘get real’ and come up with a pragmatic plan.”

 

And evidently future-mindedness benefits us both personally and relationally. Some of those bennies include:

  • allowing you to develop more concrete goals
  • solving romantic-partner relationships (by projecting your feelings about it into the future.

 

That latter practice can lead to less blaming and more forgiveness and greater relationship well-being.

 

Dangers of faulty future-mindedness—

Negative focused future-mindedness can contribute to:

  • depression
  • anxiety
  • other psychological disorders

 

That may be why so many popular therapies being used today—future-oriented, hope, solution-focused, and cognitive –behavioral—therapies help you improve the way you think about the future.

 

How to improve your future-mindedness—

Want to try to improve your future-mindedness at home?

Try journaling—the positive, rather than woe-is-me type of constant lamenting. Write about what opportunities might come your way, what opportunities you could create for yourself.

Make time for future-minded dreaming, individually and as a couple, if you’re married. My husband do a future-minded retreat every year, usually around our anniversary, to take stock of our current life and talk about dreams we have as individuals and as a couple. Hearing someone else’s heart and dreams helps us draw closer and know how to better support one another.

 

Big future-mindedness—

Societies may also be moving toward being future-minded too, both individually and together.

I think that idea started 50 years ago, when our young President John Fitzgerald Kennedy posed a challenge to both the United States and the world when he said:

 

“Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country.

My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what American will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.”

 

After nearly 60 years, perhaps we are finally embracing the possibilities Kennedy espoused with his most decidedly future-mindedness.

But let’s not overlook the end of Kennedy’s inaugural speech:

 

“…let us go forth to lead the land we love, asking His blessing and His help, but knowing that here on earth God’s work must truly be our own.”

 

And to that I add an Amen!

 

Until next week, start doodling your daydreams and planning (and hoping) for the future and note how it affects your happiness.

Blessings,

Andrea


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The Importance of Daily Stretching—Reducing the Effects of Aging: Part I

I’ve been shirking my responsibilities in one big health and wellness area, an area a lot of people don’t pay enough attention to. But I should have known better. As a gymnast, it was a daily, if not hourly ritual or habit, and it helped keep me in top form for participating in my sport and avoiding injury.

It’s also something I droned on and on about to my injury-recovering athletes and patients.

What am I talking about?

Stretching.

 

My arrogant self just figured I’d always be naturally flexible, my limbs supple and pliable to extreme ranges of motion. Alas, it was not to be. Without me noticing, or taking heed, my muscles shortened into tight, mostly unresponsive bands.

 

I’m still recovering from a year of WAY too much sitting while writing. Marathon sitting episodes left me bent over, my legs numb and painful. It was painful for my feet, legs and back to just get up, straighten up, and walk around.

But I’m battling my way back, although I doubt I’ll ever achieve the flexibility I once enjoyed. And that’s probably a good thing, since I tended toward hyper-flexibility in some joints; and I suffer from the effects of being hyper-flexible in the joint where my lumbar spine connects to my sacrum (pelvis), an area known as the sacroiliac joint, or SI joint.

So now I’ve returned to my light morning and evening stretching regimens and added a couple of stretching periods to my workouts—one short one after I’ve warmed up on the treadmill for a quarter of a mile; and a long, intense stretch following the treadmill and elliptical workout (which usually totals 3 miles), before I head to the circuit stations or regular workout machines.

And it’s working! I’m able to move better, my reaction time has improved along with my sleep, and my workouts are stronger. It’s also helping me lose weight and re-shape my legs and arms.

 

What research says about stretching—

Harvard Healthbeat addresses stretching in its newsletter every so often and touts its benefits, particularly in older people.

Stretching helps you maintain your mobility, ability to twist and turn while doing basics activities like driving and moving comfortably around your home.

It also reduces your risks of falls and injury, injuries that can further hamper your flexibility because they sideline you result in muscle atrophy and strength loss.

Flexibility is important for maintaining muscle and tendon health. As we age, our muscles normally shrink, and the tendons lose their water content. But there is good news: you can reverse some of this process with mild, daily stretching periods of 5 or 10 minutes.

And when you’re more flexible and supple, you’re more self-confident in your daily movements and activities. Another physical and emotional plus side!

 

Getting down to stretching basics—

In a May 2019 health newsletter issue, Harvard discussed waning flexibility in the aging person and how it can be combatted.

 

“When you sit too much and don’t move around, the muscles in your hips, legs, and calves get tighter,” says Dr. Lauren Elson of the Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation Department at Harvard-affiliated Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital, and faculty editor for Harvard Health Publishing’s special reports, Stretching and Starting to Exercise.

 

I can see this effect in my 97-year-old mother, a normally very active, strong and mobile woman.

For the last couple of years, she’s been spending more and more time sitting, trying to watch television through her severely macular-degenerated eyes, with her feet and legs elevated on a footstool (another health -no-no). Other aging residents of her former residence were the same. You could tell the way they maneuvered around with their walkers—stiff, shuffling, unsure.

Now that she’s in a memory care home, it’s worse. Not as much space to move around in, and not much to do. That means more sitting around in recliners and chairs with footstools. Regular physical therapy visits help a little, but it’s not enough.

 

This sad effect was obvious in the cadavers I had to examine and dissect in undergrad anatomy class. Younger people had full muscles; older people had barely- recognizable-as-muscles stringy ones.

Dr. Elson says you should approach stretching like any other health aspect you practice and perform on a daily basis—like teeth brushing. Yes! Teeth brushing. So add it to your daily prep time.

She also encourages you to aim for an entire-body stretching program that targets the major joints and muscles and takes those joints through their full range of motion.

The common problem areas are the hips, legs, low back, and shoulders and chest.

 

“These are the areas that you rely on most when performing routine movements, and the ones that suffer most when you’re sedentary,” says Dr. Elson. “Of course, everyone is different and you may have certain spots that are tighter than others.”

 

Dr. Elson is also a proponent of adding additional flexibility-minded activities, such as yoga and tai chi. They have great programs geared toward the older adult, so you might want to start with those. DVDs can get you started at home, in the comfort of your own living room.

Be careful with the yoga, though. Some poses and stretches are not indicated for people with arthritis.

 

Getting started with your stretching now—

If you’d like to read the article, here’s your link. It gives you four daily stretches you can start right now!

Next week, we’ll delve into Part 2 of stretching. I’ll give you my opinion on static stretching versus bouncing. That’s been a topic of contention and controversy for years.

I’ll also give you some additional resources to use in your quest for flexibility

Until then, happy stretching

Blessings,

Andrea


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The Fallacy of 10,000 Steps

Do you make it a goal to walk 10,000 steps each day?

A lot of fitness-minded people have this goal on their daily to-do list. They think it’s conventional wisdom. And when they don’t manage to get to that number, they feel defeated.

Turns out, though, 10,000 steps might not be the number you should shoot for.

Actually, it’s a lot lower!

 

The Proof—

A June, 2019 New York Post story revealed that the 10,000 steps being an optimal goal is a sham. And they backed it up with some evidence from Harvard Medical School and the Journal of American Medical Association—Internal Medicine (JAMA Internal Medicine).

Evidently, less is often more when it comes to walking.

 

A lot of women were studied, 16,741 of them to be exact, between the ages of 62 to 101, for four years. They wore walking trackers for 7 consecutive days, while they were awake. No water activities, t hough.

Unfortunately, 504 of them died during the study.

 

10K Daily Steps Results—

The study showed that five thousand, not ten thousand steps seemed to be a sweet spot for decreasing early death for women.

Those averaging 4,400 steps experienced a significantly lower mortality rate than those taking half as many, or 2,200 daily steps.

Seven thousand, five hundred steps offered an even lower mortality, but not a huge drop.

No decrease in mortality came with hitting the 10K number.

 

 So how did we arrive at 10K steps?

Isn’t it just like some marketing genius to manipulate our lives and thinking? (Rhetorical question.)

Evidently, that’s exactly what happened in this case, when a Japanese marketing company advertising an early version of its walking meter (pedometer) invented before the 1964 Tokyo Olympics to promote movement touted the 10K steps through the devices name: “manpo-kei”

  • Man = 10K
  • Po = steps
  • Kei = meter

 

And voila! The 10,000 steps meter!

Now that the 2020 Tokyo Olympics is looming, I wonder what other brilliant devices and bogus marketing we’ll be subjected to, and fall for.

Heavens, we’re gullible and way too trusting, aren’t we?

 

What the study didn’t tell us—

The study didn’t look at quality of life, cognitive function, or physical conditions. And evidently there was no evidence to suggest that more daily steps was dangerous, although it stands to educated reason that more mileage would increase your risk of joint wear and tear and some chronic injuries from overuse. But relaxed-pace walking probably wouldn’t be a problem. (Although being on your feet too long during the day can cause vascular issues.)

One thing the researcher did note, however, was that the intensity of each step did NOT matter. Every step, no matter how energetic, counted!

What great news that is as advancing age slows you down!

 

I found the story online several weeks ago, but Harvard Health Beat on-line newsletter released its version just last week.

Key findings, noted in the on-line article are:

  • Sedentary women averaged 2,700 steps a day.
  • Women who averaged 4,400 daily steps had a 41% reduction in mortality.
  • Mortality rates progressively improved before leveling off at approximately 7,500 steps per day

 

So if you have time, and the inclination, for those 10K steps, then step away!

But if not, do not be discouraged. Shoot for 4,400 and then work your way up to the golden 7,500 steps.

Until next week,

re-set your fitness counter’s step goal and enjoy a sigh of relief.

You can do this!

Blessings,

Andrea

 

Harvard Healthbeat Newsletter link.

Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

What is Intermittent Fasting and How Do You Do It?

Many years ago, when I was in college, a sorority sister asked me how I managed to lose so much weight. “By starving,” I said (sarcastic chuckle included). “How else?”

My response was only a little facetious, and definitely rhetorical. She nodded in understanding.

 

All my nutrition training told me that was the wrong way to go about it; that starving was dangerous and counter-productive. To lose weight you just needed to increase your exercise (as a Physical Education and athletic training major I was already doing quite a bit of that); and reduce your calorie intake a little. (I hadn’t been doing that. In fact, I was consuming far too many calories for my activity level.)

And, of course, when I did restrict my calorie consumption, I wasn’t starving myself entirely. I usually enjoyed dinner with my sorority sisters at the house and substituted Diet Pepsi for other meals. Gobs of it. Definitely an unhealthy thing to do. (I was usually in too much of a hurry to take time to eat breakfast.)

Research now shows—and more professionals are recognizing—that “starving” or severely reducing your calorie intake or fasting one to times a week is beneficial.

But there are researchers that have supported this conclusion for some time.

 

Some fasting and limited calorie consumption history—

When I was working in Southern California in the 80s and 90s, a researcher at nearby Loma Linda University was studying the effects of fasting and severely reduced calorie consumption, to a point where he said that you really end up feeling hungry most of the time. He believed, for a variety of reasons, it was healthier for the body to run in short supply. He also thought it would lengthen your life span.

Then the University of Wisconsin (my alma mater) did a longitudinal (17 years, I believe it was) study using monkeys (one of their favorite subjects) on calorie restriction versus the unlimited, unrestrained, smorgasbord eating approach.

 

What they found was fascinating.

 

Some monkeys were allowed to gorge themselves on as much food as they wanted, without restriction. Other monkeys were put on restricted-calorie diets. They only ate what was put in front of them; and the calories were less than what one would expect them to be for a healthy monkey’s daily calorie count. Both groups had access to activity or exercise.

Well, what do you think happened?

They showed side-by-side pictures of two monkeys, one on the restricted diet and the other on the smorgasbord. Both monkeys were similar age. But they certainly didn’t look as though they were!

The limited-calorie monkey looked lean and healthy, with a youthful body and face. His hair was thick. He was energetic. And he didn’t have any of the diseases that “normally” come with monkey age.

On the other hand, the smorgasbord monkey was fat and lethargic. Evidently he lost interest in exercise and spent most of his time lolling about in his living quarters, even when given access to exercise. His fur was sparse and grey; he was jowly, with fat accumulation around his face. He looked downright miserable and sad. And he had a lot of medical problems.

Did the calorie-restricted monkey live longer?

Nope. But he lived BETTER! He lived with health and vigor until the end came. Mr. Smorgasbord progressed miserably. Death swallowed him faster and more decisively than Mr. Lean.

 

Now we’ve come to a point where researchers believe that Intermittent Fasting (IF)— eating very little, or nothing, for a couple days a week—leads to weight loss. Weight loss that lasts. It also provides a heap of other benefits too:

  • Protection from heart disease
  • Protection from cancer
  • Reduction of blood pressure
  • Decrease in diabetes
  • Improved brain health
  • Enhanced physical fitness
  • Possible breast cancer reduction
  • Increased stress resistance
  • Reduction in inflammation at the cellular level

 

So exactly what is intermittent fasting?

Intermittent Fasting (IF) is an eating schedule that incorporates regular periods of low or no food consumption. (We’ll get to the optional techniques in a bit.)

Scientists believe it works because it may shift a person’s cellular and metabolic process in health-promoting ways.

One significant finding is that when the IF diet is pitted against a daily calorie restriction diet, the IF approach wins. People lose more weight with intermittent fasting. And it’s easier to adhere to because people enjoy and find more success with it.

IF also outperforms other, more traditional diets in several ways:

  • weight loss
  • body fat reduction
  • improvement in insulin resistance

 

Intermittent Fasting techniques—

There are several approaches to intermittent fasting.

The first is called the 5:2 approach. The 5:2 is when you eat normally for five days a week and then fast or eat reduced calories on two other days of the week. The two days can be separate or back-to-back.

Fasting every other day is another method.

And then there’s the Time-Restricted fasting, where you only eat in a narrow window of six to eight hours.

 

In either the 5:2 approach or the Fasting every other day method, your fast day calories should not exceed 500 calories. And those 500 calories should be:

  1. healthy fats—avocados, oils, fish, nuts
  2. protein—eggs, fish, nuts
  3. No, or minimal carb, ingestion is allowed

 

Mark Mattson, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine neuroscience professor compares the IF effect to exercise stress. Intermittent Fasting stress appears to trigger similar adaptations.

 

“These cycles of challenge, recovery, challenge, recovery seem to optimize both function and durability of most cell sites,” he says. (Special TIME Edition, 2019. “What Is Intermittent Fasting and Is It Actually Good for You?” Markham, Heidi; page 20)

 

What they don’t yet know the answer to is how normal-weight people might fare with or benefit from IF. And are there long-term risks.

Based on the University of Wisconsin research, I would take an educated guess and say that benefits would outweigh the risks, if you paid attention to what a healthy weight is for you and tweaked your needs accordingly.

Mattson recommends the 5:2 approach because it’s been studied the most.

 

And then there’s the Keto diet—

This IF fasting is similar to the Keto diet in terms of food ingested on fasting days: healthful fats, proteins and very few carbs.

The idea with the Keto diet, though, is that you force the brain—which normally runs on carbs only—to use the protein and fat in your diet. To give you a basic biochemistry overview, it happens like this:

Carbs are C-H-O structures (CHO)—carbon, hydrogen and oxygen

Proteins are C-H-O-N (CHON), with the nitrogen component on the end.

When you don’t consume carbs, the body can break off the nitrogen component of the protein and make it look like a carb. So when a lot of protein is consumed in lieu of carbs, the body can make a carb.

Consequently, when someone is in deep starvation, the body will actually cannibalize its own muscle tissue for the protein to make energy for cell metabolism.

But the fats are the key.

When fats are consumed, the metabolic process breaks the fatty acids down into what are known as ketone bodies, produced by the liver. The brain, heart, liver and muscles can run on ketone bodies. This metabolic process occurs during:

  • low food intake
  • carbohydrate restriction
  • starvation
  • prolonged intense exercise
  • alcoholism
  • untreated type 1 (juvenile) diabetes mellitus

 

When you read the above list, you can see four factors listed that we’ve been talking about: low food intake, carb restriction, starvation (perhaps intermittent fasting) and prolonged exercise. Although you don’t have to engage in prolonged intense exercise to reap the benefits of IF.

 

What food can you eat on the non-fasting days?

Does fasting two days a week mean you can go hog wild on the freebie days?

No. You’ll still want to consume healthful foods, but you can add some carbs to satisfy your “sweet” food cravings. And you probably won’t need to pay as much attention to the calorie consumption.

 

What about those annoying hunger pangs?

Mattson says you can expect hunger pangs the first month, while your body and brain adapt. So hang in there!

 

Is Intermittent Fasting a quick fix?

IF is not the quick fix everyone hopes for. I don’t think one of those exists. You can’t continue to consume an overall crummy diet or maintain a sedentary, indulgent lifestyle and expect miracles from two-day a week fasting.

And if you are obese, make sure you consult your physician before embarking on any new eating plan.


NEXT WEEK I’ll tell you some stories on how intermittent fasting can balloon into an eating disorder and go awry!

Until then,

Enjoy the good food God has given us for our pleasure and health, and give IF a try. You’ll be surprised at how much more energy you have and how much better you’ll feel as you help rid your body of excess calories and toxins.

Blessings,

Andrea

“Certainly there was an Eden….We all long for it, and we are constantly glimpsing it.” —J.R.R. Tolkien

3 Ways to Add Prayer to Your Busy Day

 

There’s a passage in the book of Colossians where St. Paul writes:

“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.”

 

And you may be familiar with his directive to the Thessalonians to:

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

 

There is nothing like drawing yourself away to a special, quiet place to commune with God in prayer, uninterrupted and unconcerned about time.

But I get it. I know it’s sometimes difficult to squeeze in prayer time in our over-saturated schedules, especially if we haven’t penciled in or planned on a specific time to devote to it.

So what should we do? Say, “Ah, well, I’ll try again tomorrow?”

Or do we look for another way to pray. A way that can be both satisfying and effective.

 

After struggling with this for a while, I knew I needed to get creative with my prayer life. While I feel something critical is missing if I don’t sit down in the morning and start my day with a time of Bible reading, devotion and prayer, there are other times of the day I feel the distinct calling of God to pray for someone in particular, someone He brings to mind. And I know I need to pray for that person, right then and there.

I can’t always stop what I’m in the middle of, so I need to utter a quick, but focused and heartfelt prayer. If I have time, I might text them a “How are you doing?” message, if that’s what I feel I’m being led to do. Just letting someone know they’re on your mind often does wonders for their spirits, and it’s all God asks you to do.

But what about those other directives Paul gives us about praying for the church, for our nation’s leaders, other believers? How do possibly accomplish that on a busy day?

 

A lot of organizations and groups have devised techniques to help us remember the five major prayer points or encourage us in our prayer life. Here are several of them you can use or adapt for your situation or needs.

Maybe some of them can help us accomplish what seems an impossible task.

 

The Five Finger Prayer Prompt—

The basics of this prayer are:

 

Praise—(thumb) praising God and Jesus for who they are

Thanksgiving—(index or pointer finger) Thanking God for His love and                                            salvation

Confession—(middle finger) Confessing our sins and shortcomings

Intercession—(ring finger) Praying for others in need

Petition—(pinky finger) Praying for ourselves

 

Another type of five-finger prayer is one frequently taught to children.

 

Thumb—Pray for those closest to you

Index or Pointer finger—Pray for those who teach and heal, like teachers, doctors, and minsters in need of wisdom and patience in leading others

Middle finger—Because this finger is the tallest, it has been designated for prayers for government and business and administrative leaders. While they need wisdom too, the Bible says we need to pray for them so we can live in peace.

Ring finger—Because this finger is the weakest finger, it represents those who are weak, ill, or in mental anguish or pain. They need constant prayer.

Little or pinky finger—This finger is reserved for praying for yourself. The feeling is that once you’ve prayed for all of the other people, you can better put your needs into perspective at the end.

 

It’s easy to put either of these two finger methods to great use when you’re out walking, or at the gym working out; when you’re cleaning house or working in the yard or your garden.

 

Labyrinth Praying—

Can’t go on a long pilgrimage? Try using a labyrinth prayer model.

A labyrinth is defined as a clear path in and out with a center where you can stop and rest. It was developed in the Middle Ages for those who couldn’t go on long pilgrimage journeys.

You may have a labyrinth in your town you can visit. One of our local hospitals has set up a small one outside one of their buildings. As most are, it’s a circle design where the path is outlined by rocks. My husband and I encountered one of a slightly different design—although still a circle—in a lavender farm in the rolling foothills of Mt. Shasta in Northern California. Instead of rocks, beautiful English and French lavender plants lined the route. The exquisite views and splendid aroma added a sense of peace to the walk.

 

Don’t have a labyrinth near you? Consider designing one in your backyard. Although most are circles, I don’t think it has to be. Just designate a clear path you can enter, a destination where you can stand or sit a moment in meditation and rest, and a path by which you exit.

Or figure out an outside area where you work that would be suitable for you to walk as a labyrinth. Is there a usually-quiet break courtyard you could use? Could you walk around the building?

Get creative!

 

Prayer walking through your home—

Another technique is walking through your home and praying for specific concerns or needs in each room. Or thanking God for the blessings you’ve received there.

In the kitchen you might pray for inspiration on planning healthful meals for you and your family, wisdom in food preparation, a joy of cooking and meal prep.

In the family room you might focus on friends who have or will gather there, that they feel love and peace in your presence.

I’m sure you can think of a million prayers you could utter in each of your children’s rooms. Even if they’re grown and gone, you can thank God for their lives and the joy they’ve brought to yours, for any struggles they have, obstacles they face.

 

These prayers can be said when you’re cleaning these particular areas, or when you’re preparing for your day. When I’m preparing my beloved’s breakfast (and lunch he’ll pack off to work), I can do a lot of rejoicing for a husband who works hard and provides, and offer up my labors as a pleasing sacrifice to God, rather than moaning because I scraped myself out of bed before sunrise when my beloved has a 7:00 AM meeting.

When you’re at work, you can pray for each client that enters your door, each co-worker you encounter, each patient you’ll see.

You can turn down the talk radio program and offer up prayers at stoplights; pray for each person you see in the checkout line. It’s amazing what God reveals to you when you’re observing the people in front of you, including the checkout person. Harried moms with exhausted, whining children. Bleary-eyed high school and college students. Lonely seniors struggling to coordinate their credit card payments and lift their groceries.

 

Instead of looking at prayer as an obligation or burden, as I am sometimes guilty of doing, I can view praying as a privilege, a way to connect myself—and others—to God. A way to enrich and change my life and the lives of others. I often remind myself that the prayers of a righteous person avails much!

It’s always amazing to me to see how my spiritual life deepens and expands when I approach prayer this way.

 

Would you like to share your techniques?

Do you have any special prayer techniques that have enriched your prayer life? We’d love to hear them!

It’s great when we can learn from others.

 

Until next week, when we look more closely at praying for ourselves as this new year unfolds, I encourage you to try one of the prayer techniques we’ve discussed today. And please let me know how it works for you!

Blessings,

Andrea

“Certainly there was an Eden….We all long for it, and we are constantly glimpsing it.” —J.R.R. Tolkien