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The Importance of Daily Stretching—Reducing the Effects of Aging: Part I

I’ve been shirking my responsibilities in one big health and wellness area, an area a lot of people don’t pay enough attention to. But I should have known better. As a gymnast, it was a daily, if not hourly ritual or habit, and it helped keep me in top form for participating in my sport and avoiding injury.

It’s also something I droned on and on about to my injury-recovering athletes and patients.

What am I talking about?

Stretching.

 

My arrogant self just figured I’d always be naturally flexible, my limbs supple and pliable to extreme ranges of motion. Alas, it was not to be. Without me noticing, or taking heed, my muscles shortened into tight, mostly unresponsive bands.

 

I’m still recovering from a year of WAY too much sitting while writing. Marathon sitting episodes left me bent over, my legs numb and painful. It was painful for my feet, legs and back to just get up, straighten up, and walk around.

But I’m battling my way back, although I doubt I’ll ever achieve the flexibility I once enjoyed. And that’s probably a good thing, since I tended toward hyper-flexibility in some joints; and I suffer from the effects of being hyper-flexible in the joint where my lumbar spine connects to my sacrum (pelvis), an area known as the sacroiliac joint, or SI joint.

So now I’ve returned to my light morning and evening stretching regimens and added a couple of stretching periods to my workouts—one short one after I’ve warmed up on the treadmill for a quarter of a mile; and a long, intense stretch following the treadmill and elliptical workout (which usually totals 3 miles), before I head to the circuit stations or regular workout machines.

And it’s working! I’m able to move better, my reaction time has improved along with my sleep, and my workouts are stronger. It’s also helping me lose weight and re-shape my legs and arms.

 

What research says about stretching—

Harvard Healthbeat addresses stretching in its newsletter every so often and touts its benefits, particularly in older people.

Stretching helps you maintain your mobility, ability to twist and turn while doing basics activities like driving and moving comfortably around your home.

It also reduces your risks of falls and injury, injuries that can further hamper your flexibility because they sideline you result in muscle atrophy and strength loss.

Flexibility is important for maintaining muscle and tendon health. As we age, our muscles normally shrink, and the tendons lose their water content. But there is good news: you can reverse some of this process with mild, daily stretching periods of 5 or 10 minutes.

And when you’re more flexible and supple, you’re more self-confident in your daily movements and activities. Another physical and emotional plus side!

 

Getting down to stretching basics—

In a May 2019 health newsletter issue, Harvard discussed waning flexibility in the aging person and how it can be combatted.

 

“When you sit too much and don’t move around, the muscles in your hips, legs, and calves get tighter,” says Dr. Lauren Elson of the Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation Department at Harvard-affiliated Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital, and faculty editor for Harvard Health Publishing’s special reports, Stretching and Starting to Exercise.

 

I can see this effect in my 97-year-old mother, a normally very active, strong and mobile woman.

For the last couple of years, she’s been spending more and more time sitting, trying to watch television through her severely macular-degenerated eyes, with her feet and legs elevated on a footstool (another health -no-no). Other aging residents of her former residence were the same. You could tell the way they maneuvered around with their walkers—stiff, shuffling, unsure.

Now that she’s in a memory care home, it’s worse. Not as much space to move around in, and not much to do. That means more sitting around in recliners and chairs with footstools. Regular physical therapy visits help a little, but it’s not enough.

 

This sad effect was obvious in the cadavers I had to examine and dissect in undergrad anatomy class. Younger people had full muscles; older people had barely- recognizable-as-muscles stringy ones.

Dr. Elson says you should approach stretching like any other health aspect you practice and perform on a daily basis—like teeth brushing. Yes! Teeth brushing. So add it to your daily prep time.

She also encourages you to aim for an entire-body stretching program that targets the major joints and muscles and takes those joints through their full range of motion.

The common problem areas are the hips, legs, low back, and shoulders and chest.

 

“These are the areas that you rely on most when performing routine movements, and the ones that suffer most when you’re sedentary,” says Dr. Elson. “Of course, everyone is different and you may have certain spots that are tighter than others.”

 

Dr. Elson is also a proponent of adding additional flexibility-minded activities, such as yoga and tai chi. They have great programs geared toward the older adult, so you might want to start with those. DVDs can get you started at home, in the comfort of your own living room.

Be careful with the yoga, though. Some poses and stretches are not indicated for people with arthritis.

 

Getting started with your stretching now—

If you’d like to read the article, here’s your link. It gives you four daily stretches you can start right now!

Next week, we’ll delve into Part 2 of stretching. I’ll give you my opinion on static stretching versus bouncing. That’s been a topic of contention and controversy for years.

I’ll also give you some additional resources to use in your quest for flexibility

Until then, happy stretching

Blessings,

Andrea


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

How to Make the Most Out of Life: Building Friendships

Want to broaden and strengthen your friendships and relationships? It could be one of the most important things you do to make you physically, emotionally and spiritually healthier.

 

Last month we started a series on developing and building friendships, something all of us need. Even the most righteous and Spirit-filled believer needs someone with skin on her. Even our Lord had His special twelve, and his intimate three. Why would we think we could go it alone?

Last week we looked at taking the first step on that journey: taking your whole person into account. Rather than take a shotgun or dart-throwing approach to friendship building, we need to know ourselves—our strengths, weaknesses, desires and needs—as we embark on friendship finding and building. In a nutshell, we need to discriminate based on that list.

 

Getting practical and proactive in friendship building—

After you’ve taken your whole person into account and made a thorough personal assessment, you can move forward. Today we’ll look at two suggestions for friendship building.

 

  1. Get yourself out there!

You won’t make too many friends, or strengthen old friendships, if you don’t get busy and get visible. Some of the best ways are to:

  • Try something new—a painting or drawing class, taking music lessons, joining an exercise class that gives you the opportunity to interact with others.
  • Volunteer—join a board that works to achieve something you hold near and dear to your heart. When I volunteered at the local food bank, I had the pleasure of meeting all sorts of interesting people and even having the opportunity to interact with some of them outside of the volunteer setting.
  • A friend of mine who recently moved to another state got busy joining the local Newcomers Club, a church and one of its small groups, and Bible study. She also has a knack for talking to nearly every new person she meets, so she quickly racked up new friends and opportunities.
  • Join a hobby group—our younger son, who is 24, recently commented to my husband that he realized the one thing that was missing from his life was a hobby. My husband laughed, probably because he has too many hobbies going. “I really need a hobby,” Cory said. He correctly views a healthy hobby as one that helps him release work stress and engage his mind in different ways than his work does. It’s a win-win physically, emotionally and spiritually.

 

  1. Find a place to gather with others.

People tend to like having a place to go to meet others, and it needs to be a comfortable place. Your local Mexican restaurant is likely not it. Why? That type of environment is too noisy and too busy to be able to focus on others and share your heart. Some places that make gathering locales are:

  • Library activity rooms—a writers group I belong to meets every Friday in a nearby library. It has been a fabulous place to meet others and make some new friends.
  • Quiet coffee shops
  • Parks
  • Community Centers
  • Meet-up Groups
  • Church rooms available for meetings
  • House rotation—have others over for tea, lunch or dinner and then ask others to host at their homes, if they are able. That way one person doesn’t feel burdened with hosting every time. We rotate between homes in one of my writing groups. And if someone needs to bow out at the last minute for some reason, another member quickly jumps in to fill that roll. There are only five of us, so it’s a close-knit group.

 

Think of other places you can meet, or groups you might want to start.

In response to a prompting I felt from the Lord, I started a small women’s group about a decade ago. We met at my home the second Saturday of every month and arranged occasional get-togethers with the family members in our backyard. Grilling, swimming and dining on S’mores made over an outdoor fire pit are quick ways to form friendships! The group last seven to eight years, and we opened our hearts to one another and formed special bonds. We studied the Bible together and prayed fervently for one another. When one of us had family issues or faced illnesses or death, we circled the wagons around one another for support.

 

As you read this post, does anything come to mind that you’d enjoy or think you’d like to start? Pray about it and about the people you think the Lord would like you to be-friend or gather with.

 

He knows best what your needs are.

 

Next week we’ll look at two more ways to bolster friendship building.

Until then, check library bulletin boards, community center activities pages, and Google search for meet-up groups in your area. You’ll probably be surprised to find the number of activities that will spark your interest.

 

Blessings,

Andrea


Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The Fallacy of 10,000 Steps

Do you make it a goal to walk 10,000 steps each day?

A lot of fitness-minded people have this goal on their daily to-do list. They think it’s conventional wisdom. And when they don’t manage to get to that number, they feel defeated.

Turns out, though, 10,000 steps might not be the number you should shoot for.

Actually, it’s a lot lower!

 

The Proof—

A June, 2019 New York Post story revealed that the 10,000 steps being an optimal goal is a sham. And they backed it up with some evidence from Harvard Medical School and the Journal of American Medical Association—Internal Medicine (JAMA Internal Medicine).

Evidently, less is often more when it comes to walking.

 

A lot of women were studied, 16,741 of them to be exact, between the ages of 62 to 101, for four years. They wore walking trackers for 7 consecutive days, while they were awake. No water activities, t hough.

Unfortunately, 504 of them died during the study.

 

10K Daily Steps Results—

The study showed that five thousand, not ten thousand steps seemed to be a sweet spot for decreasing early death for women.

Those averaging 4,400 steps experienced a significantly lower mortality rate than those taking half as many, or 2,200 daily steps.

Seven thousand, five hundred steps offered an even lower mortality, but not a huge drop.

No decrease in mortality came with hitting the 10K number.

 

 So how did we arrive at 10K steps?

Isn’t it just like some marketing genius to manipulate our lives and thinking? (Rhetorical question.)

Evidently, that’s exactly what happened in this case, when a Japanese marketing company advertising an early version of its walking meter (pedometer) invented before the 1964 Tokyo Olympics to promote movement touted the 10K steps through the devices name: “manpo-kei”

  • Man = 10K
  • Po = steps
  • Kei = meter

 

And voila! The 10,000 steps meter!

Now that the 2020 Tokyo Olympics is looming, I wonder what other brilliant devices and bogus marketing we’ll be subjected to, and fall for.

Heavens, we’re gullible and way too trusting, aren’t we?

 

What the study didn’t tell us—

The study didn’t look at quality of life, cognitive function, or physical conditions. And evidently there was no evidence to suggest that more daily steps was dangerous, although it stands to educated reason that more mileage would increase your risk of joint wear and tear and some chronic injuries from overuse. But relaxed-pace walking probably wouldn’t be a problem. (Although being on your feet too long during the day can cause vascular issues.)

One thing the researcher did note, however, was that the intensity of each step did NOT matter. Every step, no matter how energetic, counted!

What great news that is as advancing age slows you down!

 

I found the story online several weeks ago, but Harvard Health Beat on-line newsletter released its version just last week.

Key findings, noted in the on-line article are:

  • Sedentary women averaged 2,700 steps a day.
  • Women who averaged 4,400 daily steps had a 41% reduction in mortality.
  • Mortality rates progressively improved before leveling off at approximately 7,500 steps per day

 

So if you have time, and the inclination, for those 10K steps, then step away!

But if not, do not be discouraged. Shoot for 4,400 and then work your way up to the golden 7,500 steps.

Until next week,

re-set your fitness counter’s step goal and enjoy a sigh of relief.

You can do this!

Blessings,

Andrea

 

Harvard Healthbeat Newsletter link.

Andrea Arthur Owan is an award-winning inspirational writer, fitness pro and chaplain. She writes and works to help people live their best lives—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

How to Build Friendships: Taking the Whole Person Into Account

In this over-saturated, social media-driven world, we are finding ourselves lost, lonely, depressed and needing to return to the basics of life. (Anyone remember the song with that title by 4Him? I’ll supply the link at the end of this post.)

 

Building friendships and having a rich life—

Last month we started a series on developing and building friendships, something all of us need. Even the most righteous and Spirit-filled believer needs someone with skin on her. Even our Lord had His special twelve, and his intimate three. Why would we think we could go it alone?

 

First things first—

When you’re looking to make new friendships, deepen old ones, or considering whether or not a friendship has run its course (yes, that does happen), the first thing you can examine is you.

 

Take your whole person into account.

 

You’ll want to take a deep, introspective look at the five components of you, as a human being. Those components are:

  • Physical
  • Intellectual
  • Emotional
  • Social
  • Spiritual

These five components are needs you have. Needs that—when addressed and enriched—can provide you with a healthy, well-balanced and happy life.

To get started, you might ask yourself the following questions?

  1. What is my current physical (health) state, and what do I need to do to improve or maintain it? What kind of physical activities do I enjoy and does my body respond positively to? What physical activities enhance my other needs?
  2. How can I stimulate my intellectual side and keep my brain and cognitive functions active and as young as possible? (Physical activity is important for this too.) Would I like to learn a new language? Learn to play a musical instrument? Take a gourmet cooking class? An art class?
  3. Would I make new friends and receive more social stimulation if I join a fitness class or a local hiking or cycling group? Would museum memberships or outings stimulate my brain? What about book clubs, or newcomers club if I’ve recently moved to a new area?
  4. Is there a fellowship or Bible study group I could join that would enrich me in multiple areas—intellectual, emotional, social, and spiritual? A volunteer position?
  5. Is there something you and a current friend can do together? A friend of mine has a weekly, standing lunch date with another friend of hers. Sometimes they sit for hours and chat while eating. Gathering around a meal is one of the best ways to learn about one another and deepen friendships.

 

This same friend and I had a marvelous day at the zoo on the first day of spring this year. I’d been lamenting the fact that my boys were grown and gone, and we would no longer celebrate the first day of spring together with a “spring fling” day, when I’d give them the day off from home schooling, and we’d hit the zoo and swings at a local park.

But while languishing in my self-pity, the Lord reminded me that I wasn’t dead yet and that I could still celebrate spring fling day with a friend. We had a glorious time together, and ALL of the animals (except the rhino) were out on full, happy display for us on the gorgeous first day of spring. It was truly a day made in heaven! I even took pictures and texted them to the boys. “You’re at the ZOO!” came the return texts. Sharing the day with them that way resurrected some sweet memories for them. And I made a precious new one with a special friend!

It was a stimulating day physically, (3 weeks post-surgery, I hobbled around in a knee brace), emotionally, intellectually, socially, and spiritually.

A win-win all around!

 

Your turn—

Spend some time this week meditating on which areas/needs you’re not meeting and jotting down some ideas that could get you going in meeting them. Really take your whole person into account.

And here’s that YouTube video of the song—

 

 

 

Next week we’ll talk about getting out there and finding places to gather.

 

Blessings,

Andrea

The Millennial Falcon in our Backyard

We have a problem child residing in our backyard, and he’s not the human variety.

It turns out that peregrine falcons also have problems with getting their offspring to exit the nest.

Actually, it’s been hysterical watching the frustrating process.

The precarious transition of a baby falcon to adult—

The first time we noticed that there was a baby falcon living in our eucalyptus tree, it was because the adults (parents) were dive-bombing our black lab every time he was outside in their vicinity. Hami wasn’t deterred, though, and continued to make himself visible and noisy.

Then, nearly two weeks ago, I came home one afternoon to find a peregrine falcon perched on the edge of my roof, leaning against our fireplace brick. He peered down upon me as I drove to the garage. As soon as I slowed down to look at him, he swiftly pivoted and ran back across the roof in the direction of the tree. And that was the first thing that seemed odd to me.

 

He didn’t fly back to the tree, as they usually do. He sprinted, as though he didn’t have wings.

He also had tufts sticking straight up from his head that gave me the impression he was a young falcon shedding some baby feathers.

 

Several days later, as Chris and I enjoyed a cooling-off session in the pool (it’s extreme heat time here in the Southwest), we watched our two resident falcons come soaring back to the tree. Then another followed suit. Two coasted easily into the confines of the tree branches. The other one got snagged up on the low-hanging branches and flapped and swung and flapped and swung in vane. Finally, he dropped out of the tree and stood on the dead grass. When I got out of the pool, I slowly walked up the steps and sat on the patio couch to watch him. His wings hung limply out from his sides. So much so that I thought they were injured.

Concerned, I watched him several minutes before rising and moving toward him. At that point, he hopped across the grass and flew—sort of—to the nearby metal fence. Then he flew awkwardly to our back wall. Up to that time, I was considering a call to the game and fish department, or the Sonoran Desert Museum to see if they could lasso an injured falcon. But Chris and I realized he wasn’t injured.

 

He was afraid to fly!

 

Since then, Chris and I have watched daily as the young falcon sits on the edge of our dog’s water bowl, inches from our glass bedroom door, with his tail feathers dipped in the water; watched him as he watches us between the sliding glass door separating us from him on our back patio and our bedroom; watched him perch on a patio chair within safe distance from his parents and his tree—the only home he’s ever known.

Then Chris watched a frustrated parent squawk at him from our rooftop, while the other parent sat next to him on our olive tree branch, trying valiantly to boot him off the branch into flight by butting her head against her progeny’s back end. But the adolescent wasn’t about to take flight. He sat stubbornly on the branch, unmoved and unmoving.

 

But in the last several days, progress has been seen. The three of them leave the tree together to hunt and return effortlessly to the tree. Picked-clean animal carcasses litter the tree base. He’s finding himself comfortable in a variety of places on our patio, including the furniture.

Last Thursday morning, Chris was treated to what he described as “an air show.” The three falcons zoomed back and forth around our acre property in Blue Angel-like flight formation. Clearly, the offspring is growing into his wings. Indeed, he seems to be realizing he has splendid, useful ones.

And it seems, from our limited perspective, that his parents are patiently guiding him every step of the way, sticking closely enough—but not too closely—to boost his confidence. Squawking out encouragement from various vantage points around the yard. (It’s gotten pretty noisy back there.)

 

When we told the story to one of our older sons college friends, she laughed and labeled him “the millennial falcon.” Thus he’s been christened.

Maybe he’ll finally venture out and find a home of his own, and a mate with which to share flying fun and a family. Or maybe he’ll decide he’s got pretty good digs in our backyard and will only move down to a lower rung to set up shop, living in the “basement” level of the 80-foot eucalyptus. Multi-generational family is back in vogue right now, mostly out of necessity. But it does have its advantages.

Either way, we have a burgeoning aviary in our backyard and are blessed to be witness to this spectacle. It’s been delightfully entertaining!

 

Benefits for me—

It’s been educational, to see how one member of the animal world trains and supports its offspring. The ties that bind has a new meaning for, and I’m thinking a lot about how much more our adult boys seem to need us—and our advice—than they ever did (or wanted) before.

And I’m ruminating on how different children need vastly different techniques in child rearing and releasing, depending upon their abilities, their personalities, and their confidence. Clearly, they are not all able, or interested, in leaving the nest at the same age, or at the age we’ve arbitrarily deemed the mandatory release date.

 

As parents, sometimes we need to squawk reprimands, sometimes we need to cajole, sometimes we need to sympathize, protect, and encourage.

Sometimes we need to sit back, observe, and not interfere.

 

It’s a delicate job that needs a ton of wisdom and discernment from our heavenly Father to do well. And a heap of patience and forgiveness (from both parent and child sides) as we walk this lifelong road together. Because once we’re parents, we never stop being parents.

And even though they achieve adulthood, they never stop being our children.

It’s a blessing we must never take for granted.

 

Our faithful, long-suffering backyard dwellers are demonstrating and reinforcing a lot of what I already knew but didn’t always do well.

 

I’m looking on the animal world a little differently now, with more appreciation and camaraderie. And more than a few chuckles and outright belly laughs.

 

I had no idea how much we could relate to one another.

This entire process could be less stressful and more successful if we’d just let it.

Until next week,

Enjoy the animal creatures in your midst!

Blessings,

Andrea